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I upvote with the addendum that this should be a client requested roleplay scenario...so as to avoid the nastiness associated with actually performing rape.

Not gonna lie, that fetish also appeals to me, in the sense that both parties agree to performing the roleplay of it

I'm a big fan of getting a little rough~<3

you are spewing slander, by the definition of what slander is.
He never called you narcissistic
insulting you isn't slander, it's just, you know, insulting you.

and how in the high flying fuck does stating biological fact in the context of the conversation magically mean that I'm transphobic?

alternatively, don't upload your character to Rack.net and circumvent this altogether

*unashamedly prepares to "write in" apache attack helicopter  For shits and giggles*

now this might work a lot better than the OP's suggestion.

and it'd be incredibly easy to turn off for those of us that don't want to put labels on everything and just wanna make sexy characters orgasm profusely.

that's a disingenuous assertion and a strawman argument to boot. I never said that, nor did I ever have that position in the way you describe it.

I'll take "Shit I never said" for 100 dollars Alex. Not once did I ever imply I wanted to exclude any individual from gaming. I NEVER stated that their existence was not welcome.

Project and misinterpret my words all you like, you aren't going to magically make my stance and position be something it isn't.

your argument is devolving into slander.